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- 1. Noises and strong smells
- 2. Talking a lot and not using our body language
- 3. Our negative energy and scolding without them realizing why
- 4. Lack of structure
- 5. Stare them in the eye, pick them up in the face and pat them on the head
- 6. Excessive kisses and hugs
- 7. Not using the guide well and walking in a hurry
- 8. Wear them unnecessarily
- 9. Wash them often
- 10. Being bored or absent
As in all relationships, where there are dogs and humans there are often misunderstandings, although some of them go unnoticed. In fact, to avoid these problems with your faithful friend you will have to prepare yourself for a number of questions. For example, you should know how puppies think, what their most basic physical and mental needs are, and also know what irritates them.
Find out in this Animal Expert article 10 things dogs hate about humans and thus you will be able to improve the relationship with your puppy, taking advantage of both a relationship with more quality.
1. Noises and strong smells
The hair dryer, the vacuum, the cars, the rockets, the sneezing, a cough or something that falls out of your hands and makes a lot of noise, any loud noise bothers and scares the dogs. it is normal, since they have an exceptional ear that allows them to hear sounds that escape us and, in addition, they also have a perception of vibrations much more sensitive than ours. Of course, there are dogs that were raised from puppies with loud noises and got used to it, so they don't get scared, but the truth is that most of them are afraid and hate these loud noises.
The subject of strong smells is also a delicate matter for dogs. Like the ear, its sense of smell is a thousand times more powerful than that of humans. Therefore, any odor that you feel is strong for your puppy will be really uncomfortable. It's true that if it comes to the smell of food, it doesn't bother them as much. But imagine the smells of chemicals, personal hygiene and house cleaning. They are very strong odors that irritate the nostrils of our furry ones, so they can easily sneeze and escape to other places.
We should try not to scare our dog with loud noises whenever we can avoid it or try to get him used to it. It is also necessary to avoid using products with strong smells in the presence of our dog and ventilate the area well before he enters it.
2. Talking a lot and not using our body language
We often talk to our dog and that's fine, but if we do it too much or while we're talking we don't use gestures and short words that the dog can learn and relate to something, we're just pissing off our friend. He won't notice anything we say and in the end he gets nervous. They prefer that you communicate with them with your body language and if you use words or sounds, it is best that they are few so that they can learn during training and learning from puppies.
It's true that dogs understand the basic emotions of humans, but they do so through the body language and tone of voice we use. They definitely don't understand our complete verbal language, just those basic words we teach them. So if we talk a lot and don't use body language it can confuse them. We must try to learn to talk to our dog and communicate with him with our body. Take a test, spend a whole day without saying a single word to him. Just gesture, don't overdo it, and try communicate with him through sign language. You can use some sound, but try not to say a word and you'll see that you can communicate perfectly and your faithful friend is more relaxed.
3. Our negative energy and scolding without them realizing why
It can happen that when we are in a bad mood or we get upset with our dog because he has done something wrong, that we transmit this negativity to him as we would a person. As already mentioned, dogs they don't understand what we shout at them and most of the time they don't understand why we do it either. Evidently it's something that upsets them a lot, they feel bad, they get negative energy and they don't know why this happens.
We have to learn to avoid common mistakes when scolding a dog. One of them is to do it without being able to understand why, as it has been a long time and another mistake is to be aggressive. There are much more effective ways that will make them understand us better.
4. Lack of structure
Dogs like to have a routine, although you can vary it so you don't get too boring, and they like to have structure as they feel safer and more relaxed. A unstructured dog, without a minimum of basic training, will end up being an unhappy dog, as he will have insecurities and misunderstandings both with his family and with other dogs or animals. That's why another thing they don't like is the lack of structure in your family.
This structure and learning should cover several aspects, from who leads the group to tours and food, among other things. To do this, it is best that you first educate yourself about the proper training for your puppy.
5. Stare them in the eye, pick them up in the face and pat them on the head
Dogs really don't like anything to be stared at in their eyes. If you've ever done it, you may have noticed that they avoid looking when we do, but maybe you've come across one that takes the look longer and even growls. The prolonged eye contact for dogs is equivalent to a challenge, that's why if they look away they become submissive and on the other hand, if they stand it and the other one moves away, it will be the dominant one. It's dangerous to do this to dogs we don't know, they can get aggressive. It's one thing to cross your eyes, another thing is to fix your gaze. Therefore try not to keep your eyes fixed on the dog.
Also, another thing we often do is grab them in the face and shake and pat their heads. That's a mistake, they don't like it very much. When they get in your face they get blocked, they feel trapped, remember it's something they don't do. Taps on the head are uncomfortable and can even harm them. When you put your hand over them, they perceive it as something dominant, if you also pat them on the head, they get very restless. These are gestures that are normal for us, but for them they have a different meaning, so we should try not to. If you want to approach and greet a dog, the best thing is to approach a little from the side, without looking at it fixedly and extending your hand a little allowing it to smell and know you, as soon as you accept it you can caress it.
6. Excessive kisses and hugs
There are a lot of things that for us are normal and we like to do, for example, shake, hug and kiss our big guys a lot, but they don't interpret everything like us. Between dogs they don't hug or kiss like we do. For them, the fact that we are constantly kissing and hugging them becomes very confusing.
On the one hand, with hugs they are blocked and for them putting your paws on top of another means you want to establish your dominance, may see it as a game to some extent. Although there are very affectionate and submissive dogs that accept hugs, most of them don't tolerate it very well. On the other hand, our kisses are like their licks and they lick for other reasons, one of them is when they want to show submission, so sometimes when we kiss them they can understand that we are submissive. As such, we are sending out mixed signals and this destabilizes the dog and makes him feel uncomfortable.
7. Not using the guide well and walking in a hurry
Very often there are things we do wrong when we walk our dog, but we have to learn to correct this if we want to enjoy the walks and not make our dog feel bad. Sometimes we keep the leash tense, we tug constantly, we don't let him smell his surroundings, etc. Sometimes we also walk for very few minutes and we get stuck for getting somewhere or for finishing the tour.
Not using the leash well and being stuck during the tour it's definitely something our dog doesn't find very funny. You need plenty of time to explore your surroundings and relate to others. You will want to sniff, stop and do your own thing and play with others, that's normal. We have to be aware of our dog's basic needs and learn to use the lead well and take quiet walks where he can have fun.
8. Wear them unnecessarily
Of course, if it's too cold or we need to cover some part of our dog's body for a wound or problem, you can dress him with a sweater or special clothing for them, including special boots, that's fine and in some cases it's recommended . What our little friends can't stand, at least most of them, is that you wear them just for the sake of it or with things that are simply decorative and not at all functional. They don't feel comfortable if they can't walk well or if they have something they can't remove whenever they want. Some dogs learn to tolerate this, but many do not understand why someone would dress them in these things, they even feel that other dogs do not approach them, something quite normal but it causes them repulsion and therefore a long-term discomfort. emotional.
Remember that your dog is not a human, try not to humanize as this will only bring imbalances and problems. Wear it if you really have to.
9. Wash them often
It's normal for us to take a bath every day, for dogs it's not like that. They keep themselves clean in their own way, they need your body odor to communicate with others. So if we wash them many times we are not doing them any favors. It's one thing to have it soiled a lot and you clean it, quite another to bathe it regularly with strong-smelling shampoos. Dogs don't like this at all, they like to smell themselves and the strong smells of the products we use can be uncomfortable for them.
It's a good idea to bathe the dog at home or at the canine hairdresser from time to time, but we can't do this very often because, in addition to needing your scent to communicate, we are damaging the skin's natural protective layers and may end up causing some health problem. We can clean them up, but without overdoing it.
10. Being bored or absent
Dogs can't stand being bored, they want to do things and share their time with you. Therefore, they don't like anything that doesn't matter to them and that it is boring. Obviously they hate it when you're away, they're never sure when you're going to come back or if you will, hence the enormous joy they have when you come back even though they've only been a few minutes without seeing you. But the worst thing for them is when their human companion never returns. The worst thing that can happen to them is that they abandon it, they will never understand why and it costs them a lot to move on without its owner.
Now you know, don't be bored and do lots of things with your faithful companion, besides, try to be away for as little time as possible, but above all, never leave him!